Tomorrow is Tysen's 1-month birthday. I would normally say that it has gone by fast, but this time it actually seems to be going a little slower. Probably because I feel like I am still in survival mode.
Can I just say that breastfeeding HURTS?? I don't care how many lactation specialists tell me that it's all about a proper latch-on. When your breasts are more fluid-producing than Niagra Falls, constant pain is imminent. I could easily nurse triplets. HALLELUJAH for nipple shields- Medela, I love you!!
The following list of Survival Secrets was inspired by my wonderful Sister-In-Law who I should affectionately call Wonder Woman because she is so amazing! These are the things that help me the most:
1- Take a shower every day- the hotter the better! Nothing helps to relax and rejuvenate me better than this- especially after a really hard night.
2- Put on a little makeup. Mascara and eyeliner is usually all I bother with- and maybe a little lip liner if I have to face the world beyond my own house.
3- Take a nap each day. Doesn't matter when, but shoot for atleast 20-60 minutes. Use whatever form of babysitting is available to accomplish this (Jim's lunch break, the TV, etc)
4- Take the pain meds! Unfortunately the good ones run out too soon.
5- Breast pump and nipple shields. Never be caught without them!
6- Drink, drink, drink! Water will help eliminate headaches, plugged milk ducts, and dizziness.
7- Take a few minutes to read scriptures and feed the spirit each day. This one thing alone will help me to cope with all the other stresses. Along this line, ask for as many priesthood blessings as are needed (or wanted).
The hardest part about going from 2-3 kids for me has been feeling like I can't meet all their needs at once. Madi still is very dependant on me for pretty much everything and it gets hard to try to juggle my attention between her extra needs, Tysen's, Aspen's. Jim's, and finally my own. But, I know this stage will pass, probably much sooner than I want it to. If I can just get through the breastfeeding woes, everything else will fall into place. I love being a Mom, and even though it definitely has it's challenging moments, it makes it all worth it to look at my children and know that I was part of the miracle of bringing them into this world, and that they are my babies forever. And, yes- I will survive and hopefully even get back into my favorite jeans again one day!
5 comments:
Though I know you're an advocate of breast feeding, now you know one of the many other reasons that I decided to bottle feed! You're a way better woman than I am, and have the absolutely beautiful children to prove it!
It's such a shame that we don't live close to each other so we can "survive" together! I am excited to see you at Thanksgiving and to get our babies together!
Hang in there Kimmie! For me, it was all about taking it one day at a time - you make it through one day and then you know you'll make it through the next one. :) Love you!
You just happen to be superwoman to me! I'm so glad you guys have written these survival lists down! It's going to help me so much in January!!!
Great survival list. I remember when Cam was new thinking each day was a success if I could get a shower, nap, and scriptures in at least! What a change that would be to have Niagra Falls milk ducts! Keep it up Kim! I know you're doing awesome!
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